What would you want?
A committed relationship or one night stands? I, myself personally rather have a committed relationship than many one night stands.
Why? Well, simple. I’d rather be in love, knowing that there’s someone thinking about me and being happy at the end of the day. I don’t really understand why most girls/guys have those one night stands and thinks it’s better that way.
I believe that people who’d rather be in lust than love are insecure about themselves. They’re afraid of commitment and afraid of the consequences. They tend to take the shortcut with everything. Lust and Love is different. To me, lust is just something that comes and go. You receive but you never really feel ‘full’. Love on the other hand consists of many emotions. It opens up your heart and throws all these problems at you. Being in love is like giving someone a piece of your heart and trusting them not to drop it.
Commitment is everywhere whether you believe it or not. One of my friends said that she’d rather have one night stands than be in a committed relationship because you have to “be with them 24/7” and “love them” and always have to make them “happy”. She’s wrong. She’s totally wrong.
That’s not what commitment is about. Being committed is showing the person you love that you trust them and also getting that trust back in return. Being committed doesn’t mean you have to be with them 24/7 and always have to do everything they do. It’s not about having to call them all the time because you can’t live without them for 5 seconds. Being committed is about believing in that person and understanding about everything they do or say. And knowing that at the end of the day, they’re thinking about you and loves you.
Teenagers now a day don’t want to get into a committed relationship. They’re starting to have sex with one person and just jumping to the next. I don’t know how they can sleep at night. For me, I’d rather be with someone that I love because it means more. Having sex with someone you love is a better feeling than doing it with someone you’re not gonna talk to the next day. Having sex with emotion is called making love. And making love makes a relationship stronger. It lets you explore a new world and learn new things about your partner.
What does one night stands really do to you? It just leaves you after a good one night thing. Yeah sure, you feel pleasured, you like it but at the end of the day, you’re going to be alone. And you know it. People just don’t want to admit it. It’s a fact.
I’m the committed type of girl. I’d rather be happy at the end of a day with someone then knowing that what we had last night was just a fling.