“Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience? Or does he give them the opportunity to be patient? If he prayed for courage, does God give him courage, or does he give him opportunities to be courageous? If someone prayed for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does he give them opportunities to love each other?”—Evan Almighty
Poker Face? Well, that song is on the radio and I have no title for it. So there you go.
Anyways, it’s 11:38AM and I’m waiting til’ my boyfriend gets home from church so we can go watch a movie or something. He totally forgot about it, fucking. Anyways, I feel fresh. Had a shower and everything. I’m excited. I feel like this is our first date. Hehe.
Moonfest today, I doubt I’ll be going. And ironically, it’s 2 minutes walk from my house. I don’t know what movie to watch. :\
Last night was shit. Actually, scratch that. These whole 2 weeks have been the shittest of shit. Fuck.
The Art of Contentment For most of us, being single will be more of a phase than a final destination. This is the best place to practice the art of contentment. Someday, I’m sure most of us will fall in love and get married. But the thing is, love will always be tested. Someone more handsome,beautiful, more charming, richer, funnier, sweeter would come along. If you have not practiced the art of contentment as a single person, chances are you would be tempted to want that and not cherish your chosen one. Practicing the Art of Contentment as a single person means that you take what life gives you, good or bad, you’re willing to see it through. It means you don’t walk away every time things get tough because it builds in you patience, perseverance, understanding and a hundred different virtues that people in a hurry will never have. Being single means you would find how it feels to be alone thus, allowing you to cherish every moment you spend with your chosen one. The art of contentment means you wouldn’t mind if life had to make you wait for so long to find the love of your life, because you know that the waiting would only make the finding much sweeter.
A Time to Know Yourself Better Being single is a time of your life when you can get to know yourself better. You can pursue different interest and passions without having to ask another person’s approval. It is a phase when you can keep focus on other things, discover your potentials and talents, and see yourself become more than what you expect to be. Allow yourself to surprise you. Stop wasting precious energy trying to figure out why you’re still romantically unattached. It’s all in the mind. Take the time to go see your friends, spend time with your family, do charity work and you will realize that you are not, and never for one moment, was alone. Try to get to know yourself first before you try to get to know other people. To be truly loved means to be known and accepted for who you are. How do you expect other people to know you and to love you, when you don’t know who and what you really are?
A Choice Between Good and Best Sometimes the dilemmas we face are not between what is absolutely bad and absolutely good. Sometimes, it’s between good and best. Treat this stage of your life as a phase to evaluate who is good for you and who is best for you. Sometimes, you won’t hear music, or feel magic to know who’s best for you. The heart just knows and it doesn’t need any romantically charged scenario to decide on the matter. Trust in your heart, and trust that time will eventually lead you to, not to the perfect partner, but to the most suitable partner for you. Being single is a phase of life that we need to be thankful for, because being single means our hearts have yet to choose the best one for us.
Take Your Time, The World Will Wait Being married doesn’t guarantee that it will make your life happy. It doesn’t guarantee anything at all. Sometimes, it only brings two miserable people together only to make their life even more miserable. Without the right intention, the emotional maturity, financial security and of course, unwavering love, you’re better off unattached.
Living Life Don’t put your life on hold for Mr. and Mrs. Right but don’t let it waste away with Mr.or Mrs. Wrong. Life is about things that you do and happen to you everyday. It’s not about the things that could have happened but never did, or things that you think would happen in the future. Live life now. Live it to the fullest and stop beating yourself up, trying to be perfect on a Saturday night date. Allow life to surprise you with it’s most wonderful blessings.
Tuesday: Had Science yearly. I full fucked up hard. Only about 2% of what I studied was in the test. Fuck.
Wednesday: Maths - EPIC Fail! I lost like 40 marks. When I looked at the paper I full blanked out and forgot all my formulas. I left out about 20 questions. Omfg. English - English was ok, I reckon I did good. :) PDHPE - Easiest subject by far!
Georgraphy and History - I fucked it up. I wrote jackshit. Didn’t even study.
Overall, my yearlies are shit. I hated it. I felt so pressured in the hall. FML
When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts. Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.
When someone steals from you it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always appreciate what you have. You never know when you might lose it. Never take your friends or family for granted, because today and sometimes only this very moment is the only guarantee you may have.
When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it’s the one thing that you are sure to have forever.
When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act, instead base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.
When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back. But don’t turn your back on love, because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts. Times a thousand fold.
When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life’s experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.
When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is man’s greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations. By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.
When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.
When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control.
When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.
When you enter someone’s life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!
I’m sorry for B’s loss. And I know that it’s a tragic to lose your love ones, especially if they are your boyfriend. I, myself might not personally know how it feels, but I can understand it must be hell for what she’s going through. I feel bad for her. And on her Facebook, there are shitloads of people telling her that their sorry for the loss and everything else. And I should leave her a message too. - Ok, I just left her a message. -
Anyways, this is her post.
121208, I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU!!!! Why did you have to go? I don’t know what to do without you in my life. This wasn’t suppose to happen to you. You haven’t done anything wrong. I was panicking when your phone was switched off. I can’t and I don’t want to say R.I.P because I can still feel that you’re here with me. I know that you are, you wanted me to know that and I do. I can’t sleep at night knowing you’re gone. You are everything to me. I never stopped loving you and I never will. I’m sorry for all the wrongs I’ve caused, I’m sorry for making you sad. You were never meant to leave me like that. I didn’t get to say my goodbyes. We have our ups and downs, I’ve hurt you a lot but you never gave up on me. All the fun, happy times spent with you outruns the pains. No one knows what me and you go through, no one knows how much we love each other, no one knows what we get up to together because they’re not us. We always forgave each other for our wrongs. We were strong. We break up and would always get back together. This time we’ve only just got back together again and its only been a couple of days. It was great. We were happy. I wanted to get it right this time and I wanted to show you that I loved you soo much, I wanted to show you that I’ll do anything to make you happy because it hurts me thinking about all the sad times. You had to go already, and I didn’t even get to show you the new me. This was all happening out of nowhere, I was last to find out about it. I just want you to come back to me. Living without you is like hell. I miss all the late night phone calls with you. My mum would sometimes tell me off because of talking to loud; waking everyone up, but that never stopped me from talking to you. Bad memories, good memories, they’re all precious to me, and I will always carry it in my heart. I’ll never stop loving you no matter what happens. No other guy out there can care for me as much as you do. You were always there for me; you never let anyone hurt me. You didn’t let anyone talk shit about me. You cared for me bit by bit. You would feed me, never let me starve, try get me whatever I needed, cheer me up when I’m down, sleep with me when I’m sleepy, care about my health, care about my education, EVERYTHING. You never wanted to make me sad; it kills you to see me like that. We would share our sadness together. Being with you was the best time of my life and I will cherish it with me forever. I know that I will see you when the time comes. You had so much ahead of you. You were happy; you were looking forward to everything in life. You were looking forward to your year 12 formal, your muck up day, your after school plan when you finish school, your 18th birthday party, US, our future together, EVERYTHING. Although we are still young, I remember you use to say to me that you wanted to marry me, have lots of children together. That’s how much you wanted to me with me. I wanted to spend my life with you and make you happy. Try to be the best girlfriend/wife anyone could ever have. I’ve listened and read the cd you gave me for my birthday. It was a story about a prince and a princess. How they would love each other till the every end. I was listening and reading it again last night, and I burst into tears. This wasn’t how the story goes. This was NEVER meant to happen! We were meant to get married and live a happy life. Why does that day have to be today??? Why is it so soon and unexpected??? You haven’t even reached 18 yet! You still have so much ahead of you. Please come back. You can’t leave yet. I don’t know what to do with my life without you. I’M MISSING YOU SOO MUCH! I never spent a day without talking to you. It’s so hard for me. I don’t know whether to be sad because you’re gone or happy because you want me to. I just want to see you one last time! Talk to you, hear your voice. Feel you. Say goodbye, tell you I love you so much. You still have all your family and friends, the people who care about you here; you can’t leave them without saying goodbye. It was only 9months together and you had to leave… I just wish so bad that I could turn back time and change the accident so you could still be here with me today. I hope you took the necklace I gave you with you. I’m glad I went late night with you, even when I had my assignment to do. That was the last special moment spent with you. Just hearing you say ‘I love you’ to me would make my day great. Remember the time we first met? It was funny, you running around embarrassed in front of your friends. And remember our first date? We went to watch ‘Sex Drive’ at the cinemas? I’ll never forget those days. There’s soo much more I can write, but this is to show you how I feel. You’ve changed my life ever since you came into it. I will NEVER forget you; you will NEVER be erased from my heart. That’s I promise I will keep forever.
JT & BN, 12 December 2008. <3
I swear I cried a river when I was reading it. Her blog made me realise how special I am to have V in my life still. My day has been made, thanks to that note. And I’m really and truly sorry for the loss. And thank you for being a random inspiration. Take care and I hope you all the best.
The parodies of Kanye West dissing Taylor Swift on the VMA is getting boring and too much now. It’s not funny anymore. Seriously people, just stop it. I’m not laughing at the posts anymore. I’m just laughing at the lameness now. It’s gay so please, stop it before you guys humiliate yourself more then Kanye. LOL
It is currently 2:51 AM and I’m still wide awake. I made myself a cappuccino and in return, I can’t fucking sleep. Sorry for the inactivity. I’ve been pretty busy with school work and everything. My yearlies are in the next two weeks. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and the following Monday. Science is on Tuesday and I’ve been studying and writing footnotes – a lot of footnotes – on Genetics, Chemicals and the Universe. You don’t want to be me right now. Swear.
Anyways, I miss V. He’s probably asleep right now. He is so cute! Haha.
Well, I guess I should be going to bed. Going to try and fall asleep. I’ve got 4 hours of maths tutor tomorrow and not really looking forward to it.
And I know I change my layout a lot. Get used to it. :D
Meet me halfway, right at the boarderline That’s where I’m gonna wait, for you I’ll be lookin out, night n’day Took my heart to the limit, and this is where I’ll stay I can’t go any further then this I want you so bad it’s my only wish
I’m so sorry to hear that your cousin is also one. Yes, it’s terrifying to go through. The things I’ve learned are to turn him on his side, which I can’t really do because I am ittybitty and he is 4 times bigger than me. Specific for my stepfather, blank stares and constantly shifting his gaze toward the left means he’s going to have one. He’s had a bunch of little ones, but this is the first severe one in about a year. Thank you for the tip, I will consider it if this happens again.. which it will, sadly.
It’s 3am, and I was just awaken by my mother’s desperate cries. I promptly got out of bed and ran to her room, already assuming what was happening. I was right. He was on the floor, face down, biting his tongue and flailing his arms. The noises he made were frightening and he tried to get on his two feet, my mother by his side simultaneously trying to calmly tell him to stay on the floor, and telling the dispatcher on the phone what was happening. A few moments later, I grabbed the baby and took him into my room. We listened in silence as flashing red lights creeped through my window and the sounds of footsteps boomed into our home. As the paramedics wheeled Alvin out, the baby kept telling me what had happened. “Daddy fell on the floor.”
Alvin, my stepfather, is an epileptic. This is the third seizure he’s had, but each time the experience is just as terrifying as the first one. I guess the only difference this time is that Michael is three, and is quite aware of the situation. He knew something was wrong, and, as I feel right now, had no idea how to react to it.
I might sound generally calm right now, but my heart is racing and I know I won’t be able to sleep until they come home in the morning. I just needed to write about it to keep myself relaxed. There are so many people I know I want to call, but I’d rather not wake anybody up. Errg. I don’t know what to do.
I’ve got a cousin who is also Epileptic. He has been since he was 4. He has had over 10 seizures and everytime I see it happen, it aches me hard. I feel so sorry for him. The first time he had it, I was so scared, I didn’t know what to do. He was biting his tongue and saliva/white liquid was coming out of his mouse fizzing, literally. I was so scared but I got used to it. And here’s a tip. Whenever your step dad or anyone has a seizure and is biting their tongue, get something bitter or sour like a lemon and squeeze it in his mouth to prevent the tongue biting because that can cause death. Generally people who are having seizures don’t know what they are doing. It’s pretty common from where I grew up. I know 5 people in my life who has them. It’s such a shame. You can be standing perfectly fine and talking/laughing with the person and out of no where they might fall to the ground and start shaking. It’s frightening but you should stay calm and think of what to do. My next door neighbour in Cambodia is also epileptic, he died 3 years ago because he was biting his tongue. Be careful about that. It can kill.
No doubt that Kanye West’s actions at the MTV VMA’s proved his douchbaginess. And it seems that plenty of celebrities agree. Here’s what some have to say about his outburst:
Katy Perry: “Fuck u Kanye. It’’s like you stepped on a kitten.”
Pink: “Kanye West is the biggest piece of shit on earth. Quote me. My heart goes out to Taylor Swift. She is a sweet and talented girl and deserved her moment. She should know we all love her. Beyonce is a classy lady. I feel for her, too. It’s not her fault at all, and her and Taylor did their thing. And douche bag got kicked out.”
Lo Bosworth: “We love Taylor Swift. Wow, Kanye — manners? My goodness.”
Heidi Montag: “Congrats @taylorswift13 on your VMA!!! You deserve it more than anyone!! I saw the devil in action when Kanye west stole your mic! U rock!!! @taylorswift13 don’t let that evil steal your thunder!!!!! This is your big night!!”
Kellie Pickler: “Tator Tot, you handled yourself with Grace. Kanye, go grow some fucking balls, bitch! don’t mess w/my lil sis!!”
Mary-Kate Olsen:”I’m so glad Beyoncé gave Taylor her moment. She knows what’s best!
Spencer Pratt: “Let’s be very clear: King Spencer would never do anything like what Kanye just did to a sweet soul like Taylor!”
Joe Jackson: “I don’t know what he was doing, he jumped up on stage and snatched that microphone out of that poor girl’s hand. They should blackball him out of show business for that. He just leapt up there, that was bad.”
Joel Madden: “WOW Taylor Swift’s first VMA and she didn’t even get to ENJOY it. Kanye You were just a bully on that one man”
Adam Lambert: “Kanye needs to chill. He freaks out every year. It ain’t that deep man.”
Pete Wentz: “Glad #teamtaylor had her chance to have her moment.”
John Mayer: “Big love to my girl @taylorswift13. A class act.”
Billie Joe Armstrong (Green Day): “I don’t know… it was just kind of a bizarre moment. Kanye’s always unpredictable. But you can’t be responsible for every dumb thing you say.”
Tyson Ritter (The All-American Rejects): “There are a lot of rude people out there. People in general are rude. I think everyone has rude moments, and I think he’s gonna be really apologetic. I mean, Jesus, she’s like 15! Who picks on 15-year-olds? I mean, God knows I have, but I always say I’m sorry, so I’m sure he’s going to apologize.”
In addition, Kelly Clarkson took to her blog to pen an open letter to Kanye
What happened to you as a child?? Did you not get hugged enough?? Something must have happened to make you this way and I think we’re all just curious as to what would make a grown man go on national television and make a talented artist, let alone teenager, feel like shit. I mean, I’ve seen you do some pretty shitty things, but you just keep amazing me with your tactless, asshole ways. It’s absolutely fascinating how much I don’t like you. I like everyone. I even like my asshole ex that cheated on me over you…which is pretty odd since I don’t even personally know you. The best part of this evening is that you weren’t even up for THIS award and yet you still have a problem with the outcome. Is winning a moon man that much of a life goal?? You can have mine if it will shut you up. Is it that important, really??
I was actually nominated in the same category that Taylor won and I was excited for her…so why can’t you be?? I’m not even mad at you for being an asshole…I just pity you because you’re a sad human being.
On a side note, Beyonce has always been a class act and proved again tonight that she still is. Go TEXAS!!
Taylor Swift, you outsell him ….that’s why he’s bitter. You know I love your work! Keep it up girl!
When god created us, he created us for a reason. That reason is simple, it’s for us to fall in love & be together forever. He created us so we could experience thick & thin together, see the world together. You’re my everything, my stars in the night sky, my heart in my chest, my air around me, my world. Without you shinning there everyday in front of me, it would be a day with no light in me, in my heart, in my world. I’d be dead. I love you.
If you like me, I’ll relish you. If you love me, I’ll treasure you. If you hurt me, I’ll destroy you.
“In my opinion, the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. That’s the kind of person that’s worth sticking with.”—(JUNO 2007) Mac MacGuff
If I were a month, I would be: December because it’s the month of Christmas. If I were a day of the week, I would be: Friday because I can sleep late because the next day is the weekends. If I were a time of day, I would be: 11:11 so I can make a wish. If I were a sea animal, I would be: a shark because I’d like to be the king of the ocean. If I were a direction, I would be: north. If I were a virtue, I would be: loyalty. If I were a historical figure, I would be: .. I have no idea. If I were a planet, I would be: Venus, the planet of love. If I were a liquid, I would be: a guy’s cum. If I were a stone, I would be: a mountain made up of many stones. If I were a tree, I would be: purple with red leaves. If I were a bird, I would be: an owl.
If I were a flower/plant, I would be: a rose and blossom beautifully. If I were a kind of weather, I would be: very, very hot! If I were a mythical creature, I would be: a Pegasus. If I were a musical instrument, I would be: an electric guitar. If I were an animal, I would be: a tiger! If I were an emotion, I would be: happiness. If I were a sound, I would be: very squeaky. If I were an element, I would be: fire and burn those I hate alive. Yeahhh, die bitch! Dieeeee! >;]
If I were a song, I would be: How Do I Breathe - Mario If I were a movie, I would be: the girl that the guy falls in love with in the end and lives happily ever after. If I were a tv-series, I would be: I’d be Neighbours. If I were a writer, I would be: very imaginative. If I were a painter, I would be: Picasso. If I were a book, I would be: very interesting to read. If I were a fictional character, I would be:Juliet.
If I were a food, I would be: Sushi. If I were a place, I would be: Rome. If I were a city, I would be: Paris. If I were a taste, I would be: very sweet. If I were a scent, I would be: CKFORHER. If I were a colour, I would be: red! If I were a fabric, I would be: soft.
If I were a word, I would be: Fuck you. If I were a body part, I would be: the eyes. If I were a facial expression, I would be: retarded. If I were a subject in school, I would be: maths. If I were a cartoon character, I would be: Pinocchio If I were a shape, I would be: diamond. If I were a number, I would be: 25. If I were a car, I would be: Porsche If I were an item of clothing, I would be a: t-shirt, where I’m hugging someone 24/7!
A heart cries because of a pain that’s left it destroyed. But when a heart cries out, there are no words, no voice. There’s no heard explanation - the vocal chords are stopped. Simply, tears are every evidence of everything lost.
Boy, you choked my tongue, you made me silent. And I felt an awful lump in my throat begin climbing. Then came the flood of “I love you’s” & “I hate you’s,” but, All of this I said with my mouth sealed shut.
Salt filled vocabulary tumble down left and right, Both cheeks raw & exhausted from this sorry plight. And even though my heart can’t form words in the right way, Don’t worry, it’s covered, cos Tears are words the heart cannot say.
I went to my primary school reunion today. Everyone was there, including the person I missed the most, my year 6 teacher Miss M. I love her so much! Aww, she was so awesome I swear. Well, today I went to J’s house in the morning then I walked to V’s house and then J came over to V’s house and we went to our primary. It was an awesome day. At first I thought it would have been boring. But it turned out to be actually quite fun.
DH was there! I missed him man. He’s so fucking cute. Why didn’t I notice him when we were sitting next to each other the whole year in class? I would’ve sworn we hated each other back then! But things changed. Haha. Alot of people still look the same. Like - LT, AW, WL! They all look the same. And I literally mean the same! JH’s voice is so different nowwwwwww. Haha.
Omg, an PT and AT went today too! PT is full like different and shit. He’s so cute now! Haha. He goes to St Trinity. Such a shame AD didn’t come. I was kinda actually looking forward to seeing her though.
Um, overall it was an ok day I guess? I had fun. Just sitting at our old playground with everyone and talking about the year 6 memories and stuff. Reminiscing about primary school and especially year 6. I miss it alot. :(
Sigh, primary was so fun. I wish I took more photos and videos. Nonetheless, my friends will still be in my heart and I’m looking forward to our the end of year reunion! Woot! xx
I miss you and I really want to be next to you right now. I can’t wait to see you tomorrow. I can’t wait to see that cute smile of yours and the way you make me all jumpy when I see your face. I love you and is currently missing you quite terribly. :(
Person One: With all the pain combined, you’ve been the one who has hurt me the most. You’ve made me cry so many times. Sometimes you’re so stupid, you don’t realise what you’re doing. You think I’m ok with it, but I am not. I try to please you, I do everything you ask. I even tried my best to win you back. But you didn’t even twitch. Instead you were as hard as rock, and I was basically that ant who tried to lift it. There were so many times that I cried while walking out on you, although you never notice. I also secretly wish you’d run after me and call my name. For once I’d like to hear you from a distance, running and out of breathe just trying to catch up to me. You make me angry and frustrated yet you still have the same effect on me over and over again and I’m still getting into that trap of yours. I should stop tripping.
Person Two: You are one of the few people who have made a great impact in my life. Even though we have walked different roads, and are currently doing different things and thinking about opposite stuff, I still feel hurt til’ this day. It’s not what you did that hurts me, it’s what you didn’t do and what you didn’t think off. I’m absolutely appalled by your behaviour and the way you act and say things right now. I feel like I shouldn’t even know you. I’m too scared to even talk to you. You used to be so fun, loving and caring. Why did you have to throw all those traits away? I loved them, especially when you used to teach me stuff. But the way you say things to me now really hurt me alot and I don’t know if I should forgive you or not. If I don’t, I feel like I owe you a massive favor, and on the other hand, if I do then I’m scared you’re just going to hurt me again.
Person Three: You’ve been there with me since forever. I swore to myself that I will never forgive you. I hold the biggest grudge against you. Why? Simply because you hurt me alot and not to mention others around me. You don’t understand the meaning of love. You tell me that you care, you say that you’re trying your best but you’re not making any progress. I take in shit from you every single time you’re angry or frustrated. I try to be the best person I can to you but sometimes I feel like you should be the one showing me that I can rely on you and that you’re gonna be there for me. But instead you had to go blow it all away. I will never, ever, ever forgive you for what you’ve done to me and the others around me. I hate you, but I can’t stand the fact that you’re that person.
To: You Date: Today From: God Subject: Yourself Reference: Life
This is God, Today i will be handling all of your problems for you. I do not need your help. So, have a nice day. I love you.
P.S. And, remember… if life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, do not attempt to resolve it yourself! Kindly put it in the SFGTD (something for God to do) box. I will get to it in MY TIME. All situations will be resolved, but in my time, not yours.Once the matter is placed into the box, do not hold onto it by worrying about it. Instead, focus on all the wonderful things that are present in your life now.
If you find yourself stuck in traffic, don’t despair. There are people in the world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.
Should you have a bad day at work; think of the man who has been out of work for years.
Should you despair over a relationship gone bad; think of the person who has never known what it’s like to love and be loved in return.
Should you grieve the passing of another weekend; think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.
Should your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance; think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take a walk.
Should you notice a new gray hair in the mirror; think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.
Should you find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking what is my purpose? Be thankful. There are those who didn’t live long enough to get the opportunity.
Should you find yourself the victim of other people’s bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; remember, things could be worse. You could be one of them!
Should you decide to share this with a friend; Thank you. You may have touched their life in ways you will never know!
“I don’t even know what my password is for this Tumblr. I changed it 2 weeks ago and I have no idea what to. The only reason why I’m always logged on is cus I saved my login on my browser. I’m THAT awesome.”—D
“I had the lonely child’s habit of making up stories and holding conversations with imaginary persons, and I think from the very start my literary ambitions were mixed up with the feeling of being isolated and undervalued. I knew that I had a facility with words and a power of facing unpleasant facts, and I felt that this created a sort of private world in which I could get my own back for my failure in everyday life.”—George Orwell, Why I Write
Guys, complaints about your relationship are what you have guy friends for. Stop bringing another girl into the relationship, she shouldn’t hear any more about the relationship from you than is publically obvious. If your girlfriend wants another girl to know, then she’ll tell her. You know, that whole ‘girl-talk’ thing. Unless you’ve known her for years, you aren’t close enough to talk to her about it. You can have ‘guy-talk’, otherwise shut your mouth.
Are you stupid? You have a girlfriend. Therefore, other girls should not be sitting on your lap. You should not have your arm wrapped around other girls’ waists. You should not have some other girl getting cozy with you, watching a movie or whatever. It doesn’t matter if other people are present, it’s still inappropriate. You should also not have these things photographed, unless you are an extreme idiot. If you have cute little things you do with your girlfriend, it’s going to hurt when she sees you doing it with someone else. If you’re texting other girls when she’s trying to have a conversation with you, expect some passive aggression to ensue. If you tell things to other girls that you don’t share with her, don’t expect her to understand. And if you don’t respect her enough to knock it off when she tells you it makes her uncomfortable, expect your relationship to be over soon. You don’t have to fuck around to cross the wrong lines.
And hey, if you know a girl’s into you, how about you not lead her on? You know, those little flirty things that make her blush. Or texting her nonstop, all day everyday. Or maybe you shouldn’t go get trashy drunk with her and get all touchy. Just saying, it doesn’t take a genius to figure out.
I thought I was overly-sensitive, but it seems most girls think the same way. So if it’s so obvious to the people around you, why can’t you seem to grasp it? I don’t understand.
When people have Myspace photo albums with 20+ pictures of their own face. This doubles when these pictures are taking with a webcam. I usually scroll through anyway, and this is therefore punctuated by the saddening realization that I just wasted five minutes of my life looking at your face from 20+ slightly different angles. Please, PLEASE get over yourself.