First of all, don’t try to change yourself to get girls. Girls can see right through it when you try to impress them. I would suggest becoming friends with girls, and treating them as equals. Be yourself, and girls will appreciate that. Don’t be afraid to admit how you feel. Girls like guys who are sensitive and not afraid to cry much more than guys who cover up their feelings and try to look tough.
(Remember, it is impossible to fully understand girls, even if you ARE a girl. Not all girls are exactly the same, so don’t take these tips TOO literally.)
1. When a girl says she’s sad, but she isn’t crying, it means she’s crying in her heart.
2. When she ignores you after you’ve done something wrong, it’s best to give her some time to cool down before touching her heart with an apology.
3. A girl can’t find anything to hate about the guy she loves (which is why it is so hard for her to ‘get over him’ after the relationship’s over.)
4. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind every minute of the day, even though she flirts with other guys.
5. When the guy she likes smiles and stares deep into her eyes, she will melt.
6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually not sure how to react to them.
7. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her. So if you treat a girl just as a friend, go easy on the smiles and stare ok?
8. If you don’t like a girl who likes you, break it to her gently.
9. If a girl starts avoiding you after you reject her, leave her alone for a while. If you still treat her as a friend, talk to her.
10. Girls enjoy talking about what they feel. Music, poetry, drawings and writing are ways of expressing themselves (which explains why most girls like writing journals).
11. Never tell a girl that she is useless in anyway.
12. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
13. When the guy she likes calls her for the first time, the girl may act look uninterested during the call. But as soon as the phone is back on the hook, she will whoop with joy and immediately start telephoning her friends to spread the news.
14. A smile means a lot to a girl.
15. If you like a girl, try making friends with her first. Let her get to know you.
16. If a girl says she can’t go out with you because she has to study, leave. However, many girls are different, so if she’s really studious this may not apply.
17. But if she still calls you or expect a call from you, stay.
18. Don’t try to guess a girl’s feelings. Ask her.
19. Hearing the words “I love you” is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful. But only say it if you really and truly mean it. If you’re too young or haven’t known each other that long, it could make her think you are too serious. (see 12)
20. After a girl falls in love with a guy, she’ll wonder why she never noticed him before.
21. If you need tips on how to flirt with a girl, read romance stories.
22. When class pictures come out, a girl would first check who is standing next to her crush before actually looking at herself.
23. A girl’s ex-crush will always be in her memory, but the guy she loves now stays in her heart.
24. Girls love having fun!
25. A simple ‘Hi’ can brighten a girl’s day.
26. A girl’s best friends usually know best what she is feeling and going through.
27. Girls hate it when a guy pays attention to them just to get close to their ‘prettier’ friend.
28. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.
29. Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them.
30. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.
31. Girls always hope that they can always remain as friend with their ex. But never know how!
32. Don’t tell a girl if you’re IMing someone else at the same time as her, unless you’re just friends and you know she won’t mind. She may think you don’t care that much about talking to her.
33. Girls tend not to like it when you continuously try to change the subject. It may make them think you don’t care about what they’re saying. Always listen and be compassionate, that will mean a lot to a girl.
34. Never walk away from a girl you are talking to without saying good-bye first. It’s rude, and she’ll think you don’t care about her.
35. Never EVER say anything sexist about girls. However, if she says something sexist about boys, it is ok to tell her she shouldn’t, as long as you say it sincerely and honestly.
36. Don’t try to be tough or impress. She’ll see right through it, and you’ll just look stupid. Be honest about your feelings, because girls love sensitive guys. In fact, most girls love guys who will cry.
37. Girls put hidden meaning into everything they say, and expect you to understand it. Since usually it’s pretty hard for guys to interpret what they mean, assume everything a girl does or says has some emotion behind it, and some hidden meaning. But don’t act to drastically on what you think that is caus you’re often wrong. If you aren’t sure, just ask.
Remember: every action, every word, every single thing counts. Every smile, every glance at her. Girls can read your emotions well, and so show them how much you care with even the smallest gestures and they will remember them forever.
I hate how there are people out there who sits and type all these things up and probably thinking they’re ‘right’ and knows almost everything about how other girls think, do and react to the stuff guys throw at them.
It’s these kind of shit that makes every girl expect alot. It’s these kind of shit that makes girls vulnerable in their relationship. Stop fucking reading stuff like this and refer to your own life. Your REAL life, where YOU make your own mistakes, opinion and decisions.
Stop sitting around reading what other girls write up about love and all those other ‘guy + girl’ thing. I know for a fact that when they’re making things like this up, they’re referring it to their own life, their own view. Don’t take it into a serious account. It’s not worth risking your belief in love because some idiot felt like typing it up because they -probably- had a bad break-up or in a good relationship and felt like sharing it to their world.
Make your own experience. Have a better start. Stop reading shit like these.
When I read the first few lines, I skipped to the points. And when I read the first few points, I scrolled down and read random points. And to me, most of it is bullshit on a piece of crapcake.
I hate people who do that. And I feel sorry for people who reads it and takes it into an account.
